![]() ![]() I was crushed but I stayed, hoping he’ll change his heart. He is leaning more on the surgeon from Harvard although he admitted they didn’t have great sex. He told me that he’s dated 3 girls in Boston where he is planning to move after his work in Iraq ends this March. Although this time, he made sure we are just friends with benefits. But the next day, the girl did leave and we are back at each other. It was a difficult phase in our relationship. He said she’s just cool with being a FWB and it’s a one-night stand anyway. I know he won’t believe me though, so I didn’t bring it up to him. To me, she’s just a slut who’s looking for an American, hoping one will take her seriously for her American dream. And I left my things to let the girl know that I am still with him, although he may have told her otherwise. I left my things in the room since he promised that it’s just a one-night stand. And even when I told him I am hurt with what he is doing, he told me I am selfish and all.Īnyway, because I don’t know where to go (I didn’t want to go home yet as I know my friends will suspect and I couldn’t face their questions yet), I paid another room and stayed at the same hotel while him and the other girl was in our room. I told him all along we are bf/gf but he said we are not. He said he just want to have sex with her for a night and told me that we are friends with benefits only. I thought she’d never come back.īut he told me that night that she’ll come back the next day. But since he knew I was upset, he told me to rest and he let the other girl go. I didn’t see them making out but I felt they did as he was upset when I cancelled the massage. When he didn’t respond, I followed them to our hotel room. ![]() He asked me if we can have a 3-some.Īt that time, he was under extreme stress (he lost $10K in Boston on his way here from his Christmas vacation), I gave in and said if it will help him de-stress, I could.īut when I was alone at the massage parlor after his sisha (he arranged for a massage for me and the other girl, and I was the first since there’s no available slot), I changed my mind and told him via SMS that I can’t take it. ![]() When the girl met him at the Sisha bar the next day, and I joined them (I was surprised but acted cool). (He’s been asking me if I could as he said it’s his fantasy). I jokingly told him if he can convince her, I can try. However, on his 3rd visit in January, things changed when he met another Filipino girl at a bar (he asked my permission to give her his number as he said he can convince her for a 3-some). This made me believe that we are bf/gf already. He even trusted me as his business partner in his new e-marketing business. And although I haven’t met any of his family and friends, when we go out together, he refers me as his girlfriend and even when he visited me at my work, he introduced himself as my bf, although I only introduced him on his first name. In his 2nd visit in December, he told me the magic words, I love you.Īnd while he was with his family in the US, he told me that his visits to Dubai is incomplete without him passing by to be with me. With his work as a Business Development Manager, he came to Dubai from Iraq four times between Oct 2012 – February 2012. So when he persisted and still met me when I moved to Dubai in Oct last year, I thought he already agreed on an exclusive relationship as he dropped his other girl that I know he was seeing when he was in Dubai (his FWB girl). I told him, I am looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage and have made it clear to him from the start, which he made me believe is what he also wants. He said he only wanted a light (read for him: open) relationship, which I didn’t agree. Until I requested for some more time with him. We are deeply attracted to each other and I feel we connected well too. We were previous co-workers but when we both ended our previous relationships last year, we started a long distance dating (I was in Afghanistan and he was in Iraq). However, with my “man”, it is just difficult to understand him because he’s sending me differing signals.įor a better understanding, let me share with you our story: Although I didn’t finish all the videos yet, it is really very helpful for me in understanding men and relationships in general. I have been receiving Renee’s emails and has subscribed to Commitment Control. If a Man is sending you Mixed Signals, read this.
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